Why Self-Discipline Isn’t Always the Answer
Self-discipline has its place, but it is not always the best foundation for long-term change. This reflection explores why behaviour is often more sustainable when it connects to values, identity, meaning and the conditions around us.
Is AI Making Us Sound More Male?
AI writing tools can be useful, but their suggestions are not neutral. This short reflection explores whether advice to make writing more confident can sometimes push us towards a narrower, more traditionally masculine version of authority.
Stop Cancelling the Meeting With Yourself
Many people want to develop themselves, but busy working weeks often get in the way. One simple habit can help: treat your personal development time like a meeting and stop cancelling the meeting with yourself.
The Things We Let Slide Shape Team Culture Too
Inclusive leadership is not only shaped by policies, values statements or formal training. It is also built in the small everyday moments where managers choose whether to let something slide or respond with clarity and care.
Business Book Club: Finding Your Element by Ken Robinson
A reflective review of Ken Robinson’s Finding Your Element, exploring strengths, energy, old stories about ourselves, career fulfilment and why clarity often comes through action rather than introspection.
We aren’t built for constant output
We often treat productivity as a time problem. But what if it’s really an energy problem? Drawing on ideas from Scott Young, this article explores why humans aren’t built for constant output and how rhythmic productivity offers a more sustainable way to work.
“You’re Not Cut Out to Be a Manager”
A senior leader once told me I wasn’t cut out to be a manager. For years, I believed him. It took time to realise that his judgement reflected his values, not my potential.
Why My Head Felt So Full
The start of the year can carry an unspoken pressure to achieve quickly. A short reflection on tracking CPD, pace, and not trying to complete a year’s goals in one month.
In a Room Full of People Better Than Me
Being surrounded by people who seem more experienced can trigger imposter syndrome. But what if that discomfort is exactly where learning begins?
Your Appraisal Document Isn’t the Work
Spending hours perfecting your appraisal document won’t improve your rating. A short reflection on performance, evidence and where real impact happens.
Decisions Are Best Guesses
We often delay decisions because they feel permanent. But most decisions are simply best guesses made with the information we have at the time.
Are You Learning the Best Way for You?
A simple shift from reading to listening changed how I absorbed a book. It made me rethink how we learn, and whether we default to preference rather than effectiveness.
How Our Early Experiences Shape the Leaders We Become
In a workshop last week, we explored how our early experiences shape who we become — not just as people, but as leaders
When Everything Feels Urgent: What Happens to Our Leadership Habits?
Nothing reveals our habits quite like the weeks where everything feels urgent. I was talking with a group of managers recently about what happens when the pace picks up and the pressure climbs. Without meaning to, many of them found themselves slipping into a familiar pattern
But My Manager Doesn’t Do That!
It’s a complaint I hear often, and it came up again in a workshop last week. Many leaders want to build healthy habits, communicate better, or create a culture of trust, but their own managers don’t always model the same behaviours.
How Much Should You Tell Your Team?
I’ve been thinking about a question a manager raised in a recent workshop. There was tension and unhelpful behaviour happening at a senior level, and their team could sense it. They wanted to protect their people from the noise, but they also wanted to stay honest.
Business Book Club: The Art of Being Brilliant
I've set myself a goal to blog about the books I read. I will extract wisdom from the best business and personal development books I've read and share it with you.
This time, I’ve been reading The Art of Being Brilliant by Dr Andy Cope and Andy Whittaker.
Overcoming Uncertainty in Management Training
I try to reflect regularly on the small moments that reveal large truths. Recently, a conversation at home reminded me how easy it is to assume everyone shares the same understanding..
Business Book Club: Rework by Jason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson
I've set myself a goal to read one personal-development book each month. Here’s what I took from Rework by Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson.
Is Everyone Really Laughing?
“Just banter” isn’t always benign. This post offers three simple questions to check whether humour lands as intended, so teams stay inclusive and people don’t get left out.